Am your host for today. Call me Mc Malachi. Today we are on the streets, and our topic for today is "The Effects of Loosing Virginity before Marriage". I would love to hear from some lovely ladies and gentlemen out there, be you a victim or not what you feel or think about this virginity loss of a thing.
Hear what these people have to say
1. Happiness James
An Activist who believes in the right of a Girl Child.
What are the effects of Loosing one's virginity before Marriage?
Well, To me i think,
1. It deprives me the love i ought to give to my spouse especially at the point he would want to make love to me, I feel some form of regret when he touches me, besides i cant give him all of me due to what happened back then when i lost it.
2. It brings about shame. At some point in time, i would be labelled by those people who knew or heard about it back then.
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2. Lara Joseph
To me
1. There is this feeling of guilt and sometime i feel so ashamed of myself.
2. It could lead to some genital damages when it comes to the issue of being abused sexually.
3. It may bring about Lack of trust in the home once the husband discovers or finds out during sex.
Thats all..
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~3. Uduak James
Our Teen Face of the week is here with us on the street.. |
| Face of the Week for Malachious Gists |
1. Loosing your virginity is not a crime. One loses his/her virginity either being Sexually abused or out of Love.
From the Rape perspective, it is not bad because it was actually a mistake, sometimes unexpected and sometimes expected. Now you would ask how its expected and unexpected.
Expected in the sense that as a girl, you were threatened to be raped by a guy and all of a sudden before you could secure your self it had already occurred and then it would be too late.
Unexpected in the sense of maybe robbers on operation, Or bad guys attacks a certain place filled with only girls, you know.. such.
From the other angle of Love, It is also at ones pleasure, she makes love to her guy at her own wish. if you choose to have sex with him, fine and if you don't, Still fine....
But as a whole, it is better to keep the virginity than loosing it for any reason because once it is lost, You would be so ashamed of your self even though to some people they feel they become matured at that point.
Thats what i can say....................
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~4. Ujah Kilochi
A one time beauty pageant queen and also a victim of Rape. |
| Miss Photogenic 2016 |
As a Victim, what do u think are the effects of loosing one's virginity?
I felt bad after the incident happened in 2016 after i was crowned as Miss Photogenic 2016. I couldn't speak out in public. I lost my Ego, Self-Confidence, Braveness and so much more. Now i would speak on the aspect of Sexual Abuse.
1. When you lose your virginity, you stand a chance of contracting those STIs, and also stand the chance of an irreversible damages on your genitals. The Ladies would understand me better; Your Vee walls cud contract, your womb and some vital part of your reproductive organs.
2. You feel socially down. You dont have a say in the society. People mock at you, Even go around saying fuss about you on the net.
3. I become psychologically destabilized.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~5. Blessing Nasamu
A Married Engineer and a Telecom server at RFM Network
To me, i wouldnt feel any bad loosing my Virginity. Virginity is something personal.You see, this issue is a two way traffic, if you choose to lose it, then its your choice.
1. I have a friend who kept hers till she got married and today she is been maltreated by the same husband who claim to love her as a virgin. A virgin that gets to hear this wouldn't feel happy at a point of her life and also wouldnt feel like keeping it again.
2. When you lose it, you become exposed and not being a learner when you grow older, unlike some guys who start behaving like a kid when it comes to sex. If you are a girl and you are exposed, you can help the fish out..
3. At a point, I felt like i shud have done all this before i got married 2years ago. And then enjoy those fun, because it's actually fun.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~6. Paul Harry
A graduate of University of Ghana.
To me,
It is actually fun when you lose your virginity. A man like me if i dont get to lose mine before marriage, i may become a laughing stock if it happens that my wife is also a virgin. Who would lead who during sex after our marriage?
All these i thought of them and decided that to do it and i did it when i was in my year 3 in the university. You also stand to be bold when you are in public especially when it comes to love matters.
So i would say, there is nothing bad about loosing it. I would even advice younger ones to.... Thanks
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Okay guys. thats much as we can take for today. See you again soon...
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