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STREET TALK SHOW Episode 2: WHO BEARS MORE PAIN IN A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP. THE GUYS OR THE LADIES?


Hi guys. we are here again for another street talk. Today we've got some handsome and beautiful people here with us. We would like to hear from them who bears more pain in a broken relationship. See their comment below; 

1. Mhiz Pumping

The females bear more pains in a broken relationship than the guys. My Reasons are;
  • It might be that the girl has only him as her all and all thereby looking up to d guy for everything.
  • It is not easy for a lady to start up another relationship, and sometimes if she isnt careful enough, she might get into another wrong relationship in which she ought not to just to ensure that the thoughts running through her mind gets off.
  • The girl also bears more pain especially when she had already made love to him. She stands as a looser because she has lost a lot, in terms of loosing her virginity to him and thereafter she is being dumped. 
It is only a runs gurl that would feel so happy when she breaks up her relationship knowing well another is on standby.. #Lolz
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2. Abasiofon Edem

Okay... You know, the person (Male or Female) matters here. Now, from the ladies angle; When she breaks up with her mind made up already, she feels no pain rather he feels it. But in a case where one (female now) is found in a act of cheating, certainly that would or may lead them to a break up and at that point, he bears more pain.... LOLz..

3. Henry Akpan

Well, to me, I think apportioning the pain will be difficult, it can really hurt both parties. This happens especially when the love is one sided. At that point, we can now truly know who bears the pain the most. If it happens that the female is the one who cheated the guy, he would feel the pain and if it is the male that cheated, then she would bear more of the pain. So they both have themselves to blame, forgive themselves and move on, that's if they are willing to make it work.
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4. Lara Joseph

Hmmm. Who bears more pain in a relationship when it's broken.

Okay..... Well, I personally think it is the girls. 


My reasons are;
1. It is easy for we women to give our heart to a man and later on we try to use our head to make sure the relationship works out without first assessing him, later on our prince Charming may just turn out to be a frog wearing a very good disguise. 

Also, we sometimes use our money to buy a man and keep the relationship under our control, manipulate or even black mail the man to stay, forgetting that all the money in the world will never keep him if he doesn't love you and thereby we bear the pains .
Sometimes in an attempt to keep our man faithful to us, we sometimes deprive him of his right to choose whom he really wants to spend his life with, completely Emasculate him by trying to control the direction of his life, forgetting that a man was designed by God to be the provider and protector and that denying him of the opportunity to prove his love may force him to look for a lady is ready and willing to receive what ever he offers to her. Since you denied him the opportunity to express his love, another lady may gladly welcome him if he shows little affection. He may probably take your money from you and give it to the other woman. You bear the pain finding out that the relationship is broken, which leads to unhealthy, unrequited love being cited by doctors as a cause of depression, anxiety, and general distress, sleeplessness,loss of appetite and daydreaming.  

My Advice to ladies

1. Don't force yourself on any man, work on your self to the extent that men will begin to line up to go on a date with you, cause quality men are on the look out for quality women.
2. A healthy relationship should be based on mutual respect, trust and commitment to each other dream.
3. Don't use sex to get a man, cause when the relationship is broken you will be the one to bear the pains.
4. Don't buy a man, relationship or commitment, but only render it emotionally,intellectual or maybe financial support to help him stand on his own and handle his relationship
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5.  Blessing Umoh 

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Well to me, I go for the ladies because their heart are so soft and tender. Infact, they have a Fregile heart.. 
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6. Sunshine Joseph


Hmmm..... Well, why I think so is that; 1. gals depend solely on a guy and they need him to b beside them all the tym. They also do feel jealous when their guy talks to talks to another gurl.
2) gals do everything to make their man happy even if it involve dem losing their virginity de won't resist ,so if brk up comes up, they do feel downcasted.
3.we women have soft hrt we don't recuperate fast if brk up strikes, and we feel de pain most,unlike guys who don't care at all
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It is the female that bears the pain the most. Reason is because;
1. In the their relationship with any man, they sacrifice the more compared to their other counterpart.
2. They care more than the guys about their relationship. So at such, when it comes to toiling with emotions especially when the relationship is broken, it really hurts them more. Thats it....
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8. Carla Queen

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To me, its the guys that feels more Pain when the relationship is broken. They tend to cry all over around so to see how they can get her back. Their heart is more tender compared to ours ladies/...
that mine opinion....
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9. Jay Ritler

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Mehn To me ooooo....  Both bears the pain depending on how the relationship was broiken. But in most cases, We guys suffer more than the girls.. It is more easy for them to get another guy compared to us that would need to start deceiving them again before they finally accept.... Hmmmm.. So i go for the guys.
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Okay Guys, Thats all for today. Till next Episode.
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Unknown said…
I think it's the ladies jhoor..
10 October 2017 at 15:52
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